Restored & Remarried Coaching

{We offer coaching for individuals, couples that are dating,

engaged or have been married a long time.}


As we have met with countless couples through the years we have experienced a lot of laughter and tears with them. Attendees at our seminars have felt the camaraderie of being with other remarried couples. There is comfort when you realize you are not alone in this step family journey. They are encouraged and have hope.


We realize that not everyone can attend a Restored and Remarried seminar, but could still use a little help.  That’s where our coaching support comes in! We customize every session to exactly what YOU need! You set the pace.


The truth is, life changes, and so can you. Your past doesn’t equal your future. What you do RIGHT NOW is what matters, and you have the ability to move forward no matter what obstacles block your path. You don’t have to continue being held a prisoner by your old, familiar habits and assumptions, and doing things the way you’ve always done them. This is a new relationship (even if you’ve been married for a while.) Today is a new day, filled with new possibilities!


What are the benefits of hiring a coach?

  • You start taking more effective and focused actions immediately.
  • You have a marriage that gets stronger!
  • You create a game plan for your marriage and family.
  • You create momentum so it’s easier to get results.
  • You set better goals that are based on what you really want.
  • You have more time and energy because you know where you are going.
  • You positively impact the legacy of your marriage and family.
  • You will understand each other better.


You may be in a great place overall in your marriage, family and life.  Think of it this way: Are there any areas of your life that you would like to grow in…be more proficient... explore…have more fun?


This visual really helped me understand the basics of coaching.  The circle below represents your life.  It’s broken into sections.  How would you name these section for your life? On a scale of 1-10 (1 being low, 10 being high) what areas of your life could use some more “life” in them? The center of the wheel is the “1” the outside is the “10.” What would it take to bring an area that you rate as a 3, to a 6? How would you feel? Better understanding of that area, more proficiency, more enjoyment and fun?


We believe that every person/marriage is naturally creative, resourceful and capable of coming up with their own solutions by shifting their thinking. Our challenges are really our blessings if we use them to create a fresh perspective and grow stronger.


Because there are 72 differences between a first marriage and a remarriage, we need to be creative and flexible.  Remember, blessed are the flexible because they won’t SNAP!!


We all possess an awareness of what we want/need through honest and direct dialogue when the right questions are asked. We’ll provide the questions and you’ll know the answers. We’ll also give you tools and suggestions that you will be able to use in your marriage and family right away…and bring area’s that are at a 7….to a 10!


What is the difference between coaching and counseling?


We’re glad you asked.  This may give some clarity:


Coaching Rooted in personal growthFocuses on the present & futureDeals with healthy clients who  desire a better situationHelps Client learn new skills & tools   to build a more satisfying,  successful futureTrained to work with functioning ClientsSolution orientated“What’s next?”Works toward self-potentialNew approachCreates futureCounseling Foundations lay in psychologyFocuses on the pastAddresses identifiable dysfunctions of a patientHelps patients resolve “old pain” and stop “old patterns”Trained to work with mental illnessProblem orientated“Why me?”Works through self-understandingNew perspectiveHeals pastVs.


So, what do you think? Is coaching for you?  We’re “old school.” No coaching through email/texting....we can’t hear the tone and feeling in the conversation. We want to keep it real! We offer 50 minute coaching sessions for individuals, 90 minutes for couples, over the phone, Skype or in person. Here are the options you may consider:


We customize each session(s) to fit Your needs. This is really all about you! Give us a call and let’s see what we can put together so you can enjoy your marriage and family! We would be honored to walk your journey with you and bring your life/family to a “10!” We recommend three, six or nine coaching sessions. Premarital package available too! Call 360-904-2117 for our range of pricing.


When applicable, we use a variety of online assessments.  There would be a separate fee for those.


Remember: “If you ain’t got the marriage…you ain’t got nothin’”


Call 360-904-2117 today to begin your coaching sessions!

We offer coaching for individuals, couples that are dating, engaged or have been married a long time.

"Our coaching sessions with Gil and Brenda have changed our marriage.  We now feel safer with each other and are able to share our real feelings and not be a poser. Our relationship has gone from a 3 to an 8!"


Recent Coaching Couple